Kathy (or Kath as I affectionately called her), was my first love and high school sweetheart back in the summer of 1967 through 1969 when we parted ways after I went off to college. Kathy was a sweet, compassionate person. After many years, she appeared to offer her support for me when I went through cancer, my father’s passing, and, more recently, after my stroke. She saw my need and drove back and forth from her home in Grapevine to mine in McKinney until we worked out a more practical solution for both of us. While here, she suggested I watch less news and introduced me to streaming TV programs like pleasant travel logs and mystery series. I had fresh fruits and vegetables instead of canned beans for a change. Kathy loved her animals and her plants. She had a green thumb and, within no time, my yard was awash with colorful plants and flowers. The pergola was covered with tiny lavender flowers that delighted her when they bloomed in the moonlight. She instructed me on the correct way to water pot plants. After over fifty years, we mused at our reunion. “Who wudda thunk it?” she would say. She loved driving through the old McKinney neighborhoods stopping to imagine how she could transform a rescue house into a charming cottage. Discovering her illness was heartbreaking, but Kathy was such a soldier. She never complained despite the ordeal of surgeries and the pain she endured. I often wondered how she managed it. She was brave. Our song back in the day was Johnny Mathis’ “The Twelfth of Never.” It has even deeper meaning to me now. Your pain is gone, Kath. I pray you now have that peaceful tiny house you so wanted. --- Love , Paul