Clarence L. Ware's Obituary
In Loving Memory of Clarence “C.L.” Ware (Chief) (Papa)
Clarence Ware, a beloved husband, father, and friend, passed away in Garland, TX, on April 14, 2024, coincidentally National Gardening Day—a fitting tribute for a man with a green thumb and a heart full of love for the outdoors. Papa decided that April 14th was the perfect day to play in his “forever garden,” where he could tend to the soil he cherished so dearly.
Born on December 19, 1932, Clarence was a man of many passions. His love for gardening was evident in the vibrant plants that adorned his yard—a testament to his nurturing spirit. Whether tending to his plants, cultivating vegetables, or watering his lawn, Clarence found solace and joy in the soil. Horse races were another passion, and the rhythm of the track echoed the beat of his heart. From gardening to tending livestock, Papa embraced life's simple pleasures, finding joy in every hustle and bustle. His mantra was clear: always have a trade, always diversify your streams of income.
Clarence answered the call of duty when he enlisted in the United States Army in 1948. For five years, he served his country with honor and courage. His uniform bore witness to his sacrifices. During his military service, Clarence learned the true meaning of discipline, camaraderie, and sacrifice. He stood shoulder to shoulder with fellow soldiers, enduring harsh conditions, training rigorously, and defending the principles he held dear. His service spanned a pivotal period in history, from the aftermath of World War II to the early days of the Korean War. His unwavering commitment to duty was a testament to his character.
Upon his honorable discharge in 1953, Clarence returned home, forever carrying the memories of his military service. And on December 4, 1954, Clarence married the love of his life, Erma Lee Wright. Together, they weathered life’s storms and celebrated its joys. Erma was his anchor; their love was a beacon for their six children and numerous grandchildren.
From his days at Sears to his time at Hyster, Papa approached every job with diligence and pride. His entrepreneurial spirit thrived, with two successful ventures—Lawn Boy & Sanitation Services—providing for his family and the community he cherished. He possessed an industrious soul that constantly churned out new business ideas. He was always thinking of innovative ways to create value. His suspenders and ball cap were his trademark—a nod to practicality and a reminder that hard work was the key to success.
Papa's stash of snacks, sweet rolls, and corny jokes brought smiles to our faces, each a testament to his vibrant spirit. He would joke when he picked up the phone, "Joe's Pool shack, 8 ball speaking," spreading joy with his playful nature. And when met with "I love you's," his response of "Me too" radiated with a love that transcended words.
Papa's watchful eye and caring heart touched the lives of many. He was not just a neighbor but a guiding light, admired and respected by all who knew him. He believed in teaching through example, showing us that every action carries consequences and every moment is an opportunity to learn. His faith in God was a testament to his character, defining him as a man of integrity, compassion, and love for others.
His words echo in our hearts: "I'll be back shortly," he'd promise, a reminder that love transcends all boundaries. "If you're going to do something, do it right, or don't do it at all," he'd advise, instilling in us the value of integrity and dedication. And always, "Always prepare like you are going to live to be 100," he'd say, urging us to embrace life with passion and purpose.
Papa always thanked us for the “popcorn visits,” a simple gesture that spoke volumes of his gratitude and love. Today, as we bid farewell to a father, a friend, a mentor, and a legend, let us remember Papa not with tears, but with laughter, not with sorrow, but with gratitude for the gift of his presence in our lives.
His absence will be deeply felt by his friends, family, and the community.
Clarence is preceded in death by his mother, Willie V. Phillips; stepfather, Early Minuend; daughter-in-law, Phyllis Bedford; grandchildren, Darryl “Ray” Ware, Derek Ware, Gregory Owens Jr.; and great-grandchild, Ryleigh Williams.
Clarence is survived by his wife, Erma Lee Wright; his sons Donald Ray (Vanessa) Ware, and Wyrick C. Ware; his daughters Sharon “Bug” (Willie “Ray”) Williams , LaDonna (Gregory Sr.) Owens, Phyllis (Lakitus) Wimberly, and Countressa “Connie” (Dairin) Jones; and a host of grandchildren and great-grandchildren, friends, and other relatives.
In the spirit of celebrating Papa's connections and the people who made a difference in his life, it's touching to know that his favorite nurse, Jacob, held a special place in his heart. This speaks volumes about Jacob's compassionate care and friendship during Papa's time of need. It's a testament to the bonds that form between individuals, even in the most unexpected circumstances. Jacob's dedication and kindness surely brought comfort and solace to Papa and his family during difficult times.
Though he may have left this earthly realm, his spirit lives on in the memories we cherish, the lessons we've learned, and the love that will forever bloom in our hearts. His memory will continue to bloom like the garden he tended, and his spirit will gallop alongside the horses he loved. Rest easy, Papa, knowing that your legacy of love and laughter will continue to inspire future generations. You’ve earned your eternal rest in the garden of our hearts.
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