Aunt Denise was my mother's youngest sister. At the time when she was six years old I was born -- my mother's first child and aunt Denise's first nephew. Of course she, with the rest of the Deane family, lived in Barbados, while my family lived in Guyana, the home country of the McWatt Clan.
We visited my mum's home country, Barbados occasionally and I always remember fondly how I got to know my dear auntie. When mum and I visited I Barbados I grew to know and love my Barbadian relatives. When my aunt Denise was a teenager I was very fond of her and the fact that she was older than me and yet still played and chatted with me made me feel very at home.
When I was around five or six years dear aunt Denise would teach me things about living in Barbados - many I did not fully understand at the time. Specifically many things she knew I would not have known on my own. One day I recalled she pulled me aside and said "Mark here in Barbados we drink nice water from the taps, but I understand in Guyana you all collect rainwater off the roof and drink that." And a few days later when it rained she made me go out the back door carrying a mug which she used to collect rainwater running off the kitchen roof. All of this was new and strange to a five year old and I think I enjoyed the novelty and thought it was "fun" to drink the water we collected. Of course when I reported this to my parents sometime later they were amused and somewhat disappointed that I appeared to be happy to be drinking rainwater from the roof. Apparently it was a story repeated to many members of our family in Guyana who would laugh and re-tell it to others. I was constantly met with the refrain that "All yuh does drink rain water that fell pun de roof".
Auntie Den and I would constantly tease each other about these things. I recall on many visits to Bim I was told to be sure to clean all that mud out from between my ears in our clean sea waters. A clear reference to me being a "mudhead" from Guyana. While in turn I would respond with "I don't know why you feel Barbados is so special its but a mere 166 square miles its so small an Island we could drag it into the Mazaruni river and sink it." And this type and back and forth was typical of our exchanges.
Some years after she had her kids and divorced she married my uncle Ian McWatt and lived with him in Canada until he passed away. I have always treasured my relationship with her and she is deeply missed by all.
May she rest in peace.
-Mark McWatt