My Tribute to my beloved friend Kathleen Talley Devereux
I’m so sad and sorry that I can’t be at her service today because of health concerns and the recent passing of my mother.
Kathleen’s and my friendship began when we were in the ninth grade and she was sitting behind me in gym class. I can still see her in that lovely blue gym suit that we had to wear. Somehow we just clicked and she became part of our group with Becky, Jane, Laurie, and myself. We had many grand and adventurous times together navigating our high school years. We spent many fun-filled hours at the Devereux residence laughing, dancing, and talking about boys. We developed a bond of friendship that endured for 57 years. At times our friendship was complicated but we always managed to come back together because of our love for each other as friends who shared so many experiences and precious memories of our lives, loves and losses together. Kathleen and I shared our love for music and dance long into our adult lives. We were still dancing in 1989 on the upper deck of the Cotton Bowl to the Rolling Stones Steel Wheels tour. We were still dancing at Jackson Browne concerts at StarPlex on more than one occasion swaying to “For a Dancer” one of our very favorites. We danced in front of the stage to Little Feat at La Zona Rosa in Austin around the time of our 50th birthday even though I had an injured foot. We danced again when Kathleen and I lived together in Austin at the Continental Club where we tore up the dance floor to the rockabilly band Heybale when were around 55. Chuck might remember that night.
Kathleen and I were not always living in the same city, but when we were we made the most of it. We shared good times together through dinner parties, art gatherings, Super Bowl parties, and trips to the State Fair. We shared so many of these fun times with members of the Devereux family. You name it, we had a great time through the Mary Lynn and Earl years, the Kathy and Jess years, the Mary Lynn and Jim years. We had fun times with Julien and Barbie and welcomed Will into the fold when he moved back to Dallas.
Through all of our life challenges we loved and supported each other. Over the past few years, I told Kathleen many times how much I admired her bravery and perseverance through all of her health issues and how sorry I was that I was not be able to be with her in person, but I was always there in spirit and in awe of hers.
I am blessed to have had such a wonderful, sweet, caring, fun-loving friend, and dance partner for so many years. Kathleen will always be my “Dixie Chicken” and as Jackson said in “For a Dancer” I must have thought you would always be around so that we could reconnect when I finished this phase in my life. Now that I have, my heart aches that you danced out of my life and in the end, you danced the dance you’ll do alone. I feel lost that I won’t be able to see you again here on earth but look forward to being with you again in Heaven.
My friend Kathy Kathleen will always be in my heart along with the wonderful Devereux family and my friend Jess Yaryan. I remember laughing a lot with Martha, being a little afraid of Dr. Devereux, and Annabell’s fabulous chicken salad and delicious breakfasts. I cherish my memories of you all and wish you much peace and love.
Becky Baumgardner Jacobs