Pam was a wonderful sister-in-law. She always welcomed me to stay with her when visiting our daughter, Diana during her SMU years. We tended to her garden, made runs to Chic Fil-A (with diet cokes), and of course drank wine together in the evenings sharing family stories until we couldn't chat anymore, falling asleep, like sisters, with the tv on.
Her family meant so much to her; her parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings but mostly her children and later her grandchildren. Pam had open arms to many of her kids friends including Torby. Pam had so many friends,because she WAS a good friendly, giving soul.
I'll remember her closet filled with clothes that exemplified her fashion sense, she always embodied style. I'll remember her Thanksgiving dinners, even sharing most years with the with the Blooms. I love the early memories of Pam, from stories I heard from Jack, from Linda, from her parents, (Little bit wild, Little bit country, little bit grounded with a whole lot of love.)
She never forgot what goodness she had, even during hard times. She preferred to cherish life rather than succumb to sadness. Seeing her last Fall was a godsend. Rest in peace, beautiful sister!