Thomas "TJ" James Kuykendall's Obituary
Thomas James Kuykendall, 93, of Murphy, Texas, peacefully went to be with his Lord and Savior on May 17, 2025, in Rowlett, Texas. He was born on November 21, 1931, in Blair, Oklahoma, to Joseph Thomas Kuykendall and Jewell Bailey.
In 1951, TJ married the love of his life, Betty Jo Sutherland, in Atoka, Oklahoma. Their enduring love and commitment stood as a beautiful example to those around them. TJ was known for his strength, generosity, and deep devotion to his family. He worked hard throughout his life and found joy in helping others, often sharing life stories, teaching practical skills, and offering wisdom drawn from experience.
A proud veteran, TJ served in the Army National Guard. His service, humility, and integrity remained cornerstones of his character throughout his life.
TJ had a passion for watching competitive sports, going to the gym, doing yardwork, and tending to his flowers. These simple pleasures reflected his appreciation for discipline, nature, and life’s small joys.
He is lovingly remembered by his wife, Betty Kuykendall; his son, Bryon Kuykendall and wife Cindy; his daughter, Denise Kuykendall; six grandchildren; six great-grandchildren; and one great-great-grandson. He is also survived by his brother, Clifton Kuykendall and wife Colette.
TJ was preceded in death by his parents and siblings, including Arlene Baze, Kathryn Fudge, Royce Lee Kuykendall, Charles Kuykendall, and daughter Diane Hansen.
TJ's legacy lives on in the hearts of his family, dear friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. Though he may no longer walk among us, his spirit remains—a guiding light of love, strength, and cherished memory.
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