I grew up with Vance and have such great childhood memories of him. His parents, Fostine and Jerry, were our Sunday School teachers in Jr. High and left such an impact on my life. Vance, Carl and I share a birthday and I remember going to their house to share birthday cake just like family. I was able to keep in touch over the years with him through his parents and brother. I was so happy when John came into Vance's life because he was such a stabilizing influence. John was the love of Vance's life. Watching Vance's family continue to love him unconditionally even with differences in their lifestyles was an example for all families to follow. I was hoping to see Vance one last time but it was not meant to be. Rest in Peace,Vance.