"Jim was truly like a 'second father' to me.  I first met Mel & Jim (Scarlett & Rhett Butler 💕) in 1972 at a Multiple Sclerosis support group in Dallas (as my mother also had MS).  Through these 45 years our families have remained intertwined for 3 generations.  Jim insisted I learn how to use a computer in order to communicate with Mel after my mother passed away, he came to visit me in Jordan, attended my youngest son's graduation from Culver Military Academy, formed a 'much needed, mutually supportive' bond with my father, and remained an inspiration and example 'to the very end' of what a real man is.  He set the bar high in all areas of his life:  as father, husband, son, brother, grandfather, great-grandfather, provider, caregiver, gentleman, patriot, … and friend.  I'm so grateful to have had him 'give me away' at my wedding and to have had him in my life… as an 'honorary McCrary'… :two_hearts:. My condolences, good thoughts, prayers, and love to all the McCrary's during this sad time, his memories will be cherished forever…